2021-01-21

Let’s read about "힐링이 되는 사람(a healer)"

The following is the excerpt from Korean Best Seller 말 그릇(a vessel for holding words) by 김윤아

— The excerpt from the book —-

This is posted on SNS after some woman met her high school classmate

내게는 힐링이 되는 사람이 있다.

상대를 보며 내 처지를 비관하지도 않고
위안 삼지도 않게 되는
온전히 마음으로 만나게 되는 사람이고

그래서 빡빡한 내 삶에 용기를 주고
다시 열심히 살아보자고 다잡게 해주는 사람이며

특별히 내게 충고나 조언을 하지 않아도
그냥 수다만으로 마음이 편해지는 사람이다.

[Translation]

There is someone who makes me feel better.
There's someone I meet with who doesn't have to be pessimistic about my situation, and who doesn't need to be particularly comforting.

She is the kind of woman who gives courage to my tight life and makes me live earnest again.

Especially even though she doesn't give me advice or counsel.
She is a woman who makes me feel at ease just by chatting with her.

[Explanation]

* 내게는 is a short form of 나에게는
* 나 : I; me (non-honoirific word to other person)
* -에게 : to; towards
* 는 : a suffix intensifys 나에게 after a word ends a vowel
* 힐링 : healing
* 이 : a suffix makes 힐링 subjective after a word ends a consonant
* 되다 : become
* 힐링이 되다 : be a healing to someonr
* 는 of 되는 : a suffix expresses some action or state is currently in progress
* 사람 : a human being; a person; a woman in this sentence
* 이 : a suffix makes 사람 subjective after a word ends a consonant
* 있다 : be; exist
* 사람이 있다 : there is a person; there is a woman in this sentence

* 상대 : someone; a partner
* 를 : a suffix makes 상대 objective after a word
ends a vowel
* 보다 : see; look; watch
* -며 : (1) and (2) a suffix makes a verb into "verb + ing"
* 내 = 나의 : my <— 나(I) + 의(a possesive suffix)
* 처지 : condition; position; situation
* 를 : a suffix makes 처지 objective after a word ends a vowel
* 비관하다 : be pessimistic
* -지 않다 : don’t do
* 도 of 지도 않다 : a suffix intensifys -지 않다
* 비관하지도 않다 : not be pessimistic
* 고 of 않고 : and
* 위안 : comfort; this is a short form of 위안으로
* 삼다 : consider; let
- 이번 실패를 교훈으로 삼아라 : Let this failure be a lesson.
* A 을/를 B(으)로 삼다 : let A be a B; consider A be a B
* -지 않다 : don’t do
* -게 되다 : become to be; come to be
* 는 of 되는 : a suffix expresses some action or state is currently in progress
* 온전히 : perfectly; completely
* 마음으로 : with one's heart
* 만나다 : meet
* -게 되다 : become to be; come to be
* 는 of 되는 : a suffix expresses some action or state is currently in progress
* 만나게 되는 = 만나는 : be meeting with someone
* 사람 : a human being; a person
* 이다 : be
* 고 of 이고 : and

* 그래서 : then
* 빡빡한 : tight
* 내 : a short form of 나의(my)
* 살다 : live
* 삶 : life <— 살다 + ㅁ(a letter makes a verb a noun)
* 에 : a place suffix means "to; towards"
* 용기 : courage
* 를 : a suffix makes 용기 objective after a word ends a vowel
* 주다 : give
* 고 of 주고 : and
* 다시 : again
* 열심히 : hard; diligently
* 살다 : live
* 살아보다 : an emphatic form of 살다
* 자 of 살아보자 : let’s do
* 고 of 살아보자고 : and
* 다잡다 : (1) excercise close supervision ; tighten the control ; keep a close check ; keep a tight rein[hand] (2) concentrate on ; stick close to ; manage  (3) reform ; brace oneself (up); brace (up) one's spirits; gird (up) one's loins
- 마음을 다잡고 …하다 : do with a quiet purpose
- 마음을 다잡고 공부하다 : settle[set] down to one's studies
* 다잡게 : in order to brace (up) one's spirits
* 하다 : do
* 해주다 : do (a thing) for (a person); help with; do as a favor
* 는 of 해주는 : a suffix indicates that a movement or condition is currently in progress
* 사람 : a human being; a person; a woman in this sentence
* 이다 : be
* 며 of 이며 : and

* 특별히 : especially
* 내 : me (non-honourific word to other person)
* 게 : to; towards
* 내게 = 나에게 : to me
* 충고 : advice
* 나 : or
* 조언 : counsel
* 을 : a suffix makes 충고나 조언 objective after a word ends a consonant
* 하다 : do
* -지 않다 : don’t do
* -아도 of 하지 않아도 : even though
* 그냥 : (1) [=그대로] as it is; as it stands; intact; in the same way as before; still (2) [=줄곧] all the time[way]; (all) through; throughout; continuously
* 수다 : talk
* 만 : only
* 으로 : by; through
* 마음 : heart; mind
* 이 : a suffix makes 마음 subjective after a word ends a consonant
* 편하다 : be comfortable
* 편해지다 : become comfortable
* 는 of 편해지는 : a suffix indicates that a movement or condition is currently in progress
* 사람 : a human being; a person; a woman in this sentence
* 이다 : be

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