그 여자는 아니에요 has the following meanings
(1) 너한테 별로 맞지 않는 것 같다 : She’s not right for you.
(2) 일생을 같이 할 만한 여자는 아니야 : She’s not the one
(3) 네가 넘볼 수 없는 사람이야 / 명함도 못 내밀어 볼 만큼 과분하고 수준이 다른 상대야 : She’s way out of your league
(4) 네가 훨씬 낫다 / 네가 아깝다 : You can do better than that.
(5) 인연이 아닌 거 같다 : It’s just not meant to be.
ex)
A. 모르겠어? 그 여자가 좋아하는 건 네 돈이야 : Can’t you see? All that she likes about you is your money.
B. 무슨 소리야? 한 번은 걔가 저녁을 사기도 했어 : What are you talking about? She paid for dinner once before.
A. 맥도날드에서 말이지? 내 말 들어. 네가 아깝다니까 : At McDonald’s? Come on. You can do better than that
[other expressions]
- 그 여자는 아니다. (to younger people or friends)
- 그 여자는 아니네. (to younger people or friends)
- 그 여자는 아니야. (to younger people or friends)
- 그 여자는 아니네요. (honourific by ‘-요’)
- 그 여자는 아니에요. (honourific by ‘-요’)
- 그 여자는 아닙니다. (formal; honourific by ‘ㅂ’)
[explanations]
* 그 : that
* 여자 : [女子] =[여성] a woman ; [=부인] a lady; [=미혼의 젊은 여성] a girl; women
- 여자의 : female / feminine
- 여자다운 : womanly / ladylike / womanish / effeminate
- 여자답지 않은 : unwomanly / unfeminine / unworthy of a lady
- 여자용의 : (intended[suitable]) for women
* 그 여자 : she
* -는 : a particle makes 그 여자 subjective after a word ends in a vowel
* 아니다 : be not <--> 이다(be)
* 아닙니다 : 아니(the stem of 아니다) + -ㅂ니다(an honourific descriptive verb ending suffix)
* a verb + -다 / -네 / -야 : a non-honourific descriptive verb ending suffix
* a verb + -네 + -요 : an honourific ending suffix
* a verb + -에요 / ㅂ니다 : an honourific descriptive verb ending suffix by ‘-요’ / ‘-ㅂ’
* 너 : you (non-honourific word)
* -한테 / -에게 : to
* 별로 : [別로] in particular; particularly; specially; especially; very; much
* 바쁜 : busy
* 바쁘다 : be busy
* 바쁘지 : 바쁘(the stem of 바쁘다) + -지(a connection suffix makes a verb negative meaning before a verb means negative nuance)
* 않다 : [Pronunciation: 안타] be not
- 오늘은 별로 바쁘지 않다 : I am not particularly busy today
* 않는 : [Pronunciation; 안는] 않(the stem of 않다) + -는(a suffix makes a verb attributive)
* 것 : a thing
* 같다 : [Pronunciation: 갇따] (1) be equal to (2) seem; look like; I think ~
* -ㄴ 것 같다 : I think that ~
* 같아 : 같(the stem of 같다) + -아(a non-honourific descriptive verb ending suffix)
* 일생 : [一生] [=평생] one's (whole) life; a lifetime
- 일생의 : lifelong / for life
- 일생 동안에 : in the whole course of one's life / in[during] one's lifetime[life]
- 일생의 사업 : one's lifework
- 일생에 한 번 : once in one's life
- 일생에 한 번 있는 기회 : the chance of a lifetime
- 일생을 통하여 : from the cradle to the grave / from birth to death / during one's lifetime
- 일생을 걸다 : stake one's life
- 일생을 마치다 : end[close] one's life / finish one's life
- 일생을 그르치다 = 일생을 망치다 : make a failure of one's life / wreck one's chances in life / ruin one's career
- 사람의 일생은 짧다 : One's span of life is short
* -을 : a particle makes 일생 objective after a word endd in a consonant
* 같이 : [Pronunciation: 가치] togather; with
* 하다 : do
* 같이 하다 : (1) do togather (2) live with
* 할 : 하(the stem of 하다) + -ㄹ(a suffix makes a verb future tense)
* 만 : worth
* 하다 : do
* 만하다 : deserve; be worthy of; have a right to; be enough to do
* 만한 : 만하다 + -ㄴ(a suffix makes a verb attributive)
* 사람 : human being (non-honourific word)
* 분 : human being (honourific word)
* 여자 : [女子] [=여성] a woman ; [=부인] a lady; [=미혼의 젊은 여성] a girl; [=여자들] women
- 여자의 : female / feminine
* -는 : a particle makes 여자 the topic of the senetence after a word ends in a vowel
* 아니다 : be not <--> 이다(be)
* 아니야 : 아니(the stem of 아니다) + -야(a non-honourific descriptive verb ending suffix)
* 내 : I (non-honourific word)
* 제 : I (honourific word)
* -가 : a particle makes 내 / 제 the topic of the sentence after a word ends in a vowel
* 넘보다 : (1) [=얕잡아 깔보다] look down on; underestimate; underrate; undervalue; hold cheap; think meanly of; disparage; belittle; make light of (2) [=넘어다보다•넘겨다보다] look[peep] over < a high thing> <-- 넘(the stem of 넘다: go over) + 보다(look; see; watch)
- 사람의 재간을 넘보다 : underrate talent
- 그를 어린애라고 넘보아서는 안 된다 : You should not make light of him as a mere boy
* 넘어다보다 = 넘어다 보다 : [=넘겨다보다] look[peep] over < a high thing> <-- 넘(the stem of 넘다: go over) + -어다/-어다가(A connective ending used when one does a certain act and does the following act based on the result of the preceding one) + 보다(look; see; watch)
- 담을 넘어다 보다 : look[peep] over a wall[fence]
* 넘볼 : 넘보(the stem of 넘보다) + -ㄹ(a suffix makes a verb future tense and attributive)
* 수 : a way; a method
* -가[이] 있다 : there is[are]; exist; have
* 수(가) 있다 : have a way to do; have a method to do; be able to do; can do
* -ㄹ/을/를 수(가) 있다 : be able to do; can do
* -ㄹ/을/를 수(가) 없다 : be not able to do; can't do
* 없는 : 없(the stem of 없다) + -는(a suffix makes a verb attributive)
* 사람 : human being (non-honourific word)
* 분 : human being (honourific word)
* 이다 : be
* 이야 : 이(the stem of 이다) + -야(a non-honourific descriptive verb ending suffix)
* 명함 : [名銜] [개인용] a calling card; a visiting card; [영업용] a business card
- 명함을 내놓다 : hand[present / give] a person one's calling[visiting / business] card / send in[up] one's card
- 명함을 주고받다 : exchange cards
- 명함을 두고 가다 : leave one's card
* -도 : even; this used instead of -을(a particle makes 명함 objective after a word ends in a consonant)
* 못 : a word makes a verb negative like "not" in English
* 내밀다 : push[thrust] out; stick out ; force out <-- 내(the stem of 내; 내 + -어 contracted into 내; come out; give out) + -어(a connection suffix between two verbs) + 밀다(push)
* 내밀어 : 내밀(the stem of 내밀다) + -어(A connective ending used when the preceding statement happened before the following statement or was the ways or means to the following statement)
* 보다 : (1) look; see; watch (2) try in the sentence
* 내밀어 보다 : try to push[thrust] out
* 볼 : 보(the stem of 보다) + -ㄹ(a suffix makes a verb future tense and attributive)
* 만큼 : an extent; a degree; a measure
- 나는 그것을 싫증이 날 만큼 먹었다 : I have eaten it so much[often] that I am sick of it
- 큰 집을 지을 만큼 그는 돈이 없다 : He don't have money enough to build a big house
* 과분 : [過分] unworthiness
* 과분한 : unmerited; undeserved; unworthy
* 과분하다 : be unmerited; be undeserved; be unworthy
* 과분 히 : unmeritedly; undeservedly; above one's deserts
- 과분한 사례를 주셔서 황송합니다 : It's very kind of you to give me such generous remuneration
- 과분한 그의 찬사에 나는 어쩔 줄 몰랐다 : I felt embarrassed by his lavish compliments
- 이런 선물은 제게 과분합니다 : I don't deserve such a gift. / Such a gift is too good for me
- 그녀는 네게는 과분한 마누라다 : She is too good a wife for you. / She's wasted on a husband like you
- 이것은 내게는 과분한 명예다 : This is a great honor I hardly deserve. / This is an undeserved honor
- 저에게는 과분한 칭찬의 말씀입니다 : Your praise is more than I deserve. / I don't deserve such words of praise
- 그녀는 미인으로 그의 아내라기에는 과분하다 : She is too beautiful to be his wife
* 과분하고 : 과분하(the stem of 과분하다) + -고(and)
* 수준 : [ 水準] (1) [=수평면] water level (2) [=표준] a standard; [=정도] a level
* -이 : a particle makes 수준 subjective after a word ends in a consonant
* (-이/-가) 다르다 : be different
* (-이/-가) 다른 : different
* 상대 : [相對] (1) [=대면] facing[confronting] each other; being opposite to each other; [=만나 봄] an interview (2) [=친구] a companion; a mate; a fellow; [=남녀 교제의 파트너] a date; [=짝] a partner; [=단짝] a pal; [=대상] an object
* 상대야 : 상대 + -이(the stem of 이다; it is natural when this omitted) + -야(a non-honourific descriptive verb ending suffix)
* 네 / 니 : you (non-honourific word)
* -가 : a particle makes 네 / 니 subjective after a word ends in a consonant
* 훨씬 : fair; by far; a great deal; a lot; out[far] and away; by long[all] odds; by a long way; much
* 나은 : better
* 낫다 : [Prononciation: 낟따] be better than
* 아까운 : (1) [=소중한] precious; dear; valuable; worthy; ill-spared (2) [=아쉬운] wasteful; too good ; worthy of a better cause
* 아깝다 : (1) [=소중하다] be precious; be dear; be valuable; be worthy; be ill-spared (2) [아쉽다] be wasteful; be too good ; be worthy of a better cause
* 아까워하다 value / set[put] much[a high] value on[upon] / make much of
* 아까운 듯이 : grudgingly / with an air of reluctance / reluctantly
- 나는 목숨이 아깝다 : Life is dear[precious] to me
- 정말 아까운 사내가 죽었다 : His death is a great loss (to us)
- 목숨이 아깝거든 꼼짝마라 : Do not, for your life, stir from the spot. / Stay where you are, if you want to stay alive
- 그는 비서로 있기에는 아까운 사람이다 : It's a waste for him to remain a secretary
- 버리기에는 아직은 아깝다 : It is still too good to throw[be thrown] away
- 네게 주는 것은 아깝지 않다 : I don't begrudge giving it to you
* 인연 : [因緣] [=연분] connection; relation; affinity
- 부부의 인연 : the conjugal[nuptial / marriage] ties[knot]
- 부모 자식간의 인연 : the ties that bind parent and child together
* -이 : a particle makes 인연 subjective after a word ends in a consonant
* 아니다 : be not <--> 이다(be)
* 아닌 : 아니(the stem of 아니다) + -ㄴ(a suffix makes a verb attributive)
* 거 : a short form of 것(a thing)
* 같다 : [Pronunciation: 갇따] (1) be equal to (2) seem; look like; I think ~
* -ㄴ 것 같다 : I think that ~
* 같아 : 같(the stem of 같다) + -아(a non-honourific descriptive verb ending suffix)
* 모르다 : don't know
* 모르겠다 : 모르(the stem of 모르다) + -겠(one's conjecture) + -다(a non-honourific descriptive basic verb ending suffix)
* 모르겠어? : 모르(the stem of 모르다) + -겠(one's conjecture) + -어?(a non-honourific interrogative verb ending suffix)
* 그 : that
* 여자 : [女子] [=여성] a woman ; [=부인] a lady; [=미혼의 젊은 여성] a girl; [=여자들] women
- 여자의 : female / feminine
* -가 : a particle makes 여자 the topic of the senetence after a word ends in a vowel
* 좋아하다 : like
* 좋아하는 : 좋아하(the stem of 좋아하다) + -는(a suffix makes a verb attributive)
* 건 : a short form of 것은
* 것 : a thing
* -은 : a particle makes 좋아하는 것 subjective after a word ends in a consonant
* 네 : a short form of 너의
* 너 : you (non-honourific word)
* -의 : a suffix makes 너 possesive
* 너의 : your (non-honourific word)
* 돈 : money
* 이다 : be
* 이야 : 이(the stem of 이다) + -야(a non-honourific descriptive verb ending suffix)
* 무슨 : what
* 소리 : (1) sound (2) word in the sentence
* 소리야 : 소리 + 이(the stem of 이다; it is natural to omit) + -야(a non-honourific descriptive verb ending suffix)
* 한 : one
* 번 : a unit counts number
* 한 번 : one time
* -은 : a time suffix emphasizes 한 번
* 걔 : he or she (non-honourific word means "그 아이”(that boy or girl) / "그 사람(that man or that woman is younger than us)
* -가 : a particle makes 걔 the topic of the senetence after a word ends in a vowel
* 저녁 : (1) evening (3) dinner in the sentence
* -을 : a particle makes 저녁 objective after a word ends in a consonant)
* 사다 : buy
* 사기 : a noun form of 사다 by '-기'
* -도 : (1) A postpositional particle used to indicate an addition or inclusion of another thing to something that already exists (2) A postpositional particle used to list two or more things
* 하다 : do
* 했다 : past tense of 하다 by '-었-'
* 했어 : 했(the stem of 했다) + -어(a non-honourific descriptive verb ending suffix)
* 맥도날드 : a McDonald's restaurant
* -에서 : a place suffix
* 말 : word
* 이다 : be
* 이지 : 이(the stem of 이다) + -지(a non-honourific descriptive verb ending suffix; A sentence-final ending used when the speaker confirms and says something that the listener thought he/she already knew)
* 내 : a short form of 나의(my)
* 제 : a short form of 저의(my)
* 나 : I (non-honourific word)
* 저 : I (honourific word)
* -의 : a suffix makes 나 / 저 possesive
* 듣다 : [Pronunciation: 듣따] [ㄹ 불규칙] listen
* 들어 : 듣(the stem of 듣다; ㄷ changed intoㄹ before 어) + -어(a non-honourific imperative verb ending suffix)
* 네 / 니 : you (non-honouricic word)
* -가 : a particle makes 네 / 니 the topic of the senetence after a word ends in a vowel
* 아깝다니까 : 아깝(the stem of 아깝다) + -다니까(A sentence-final ending used when the speaker emphasizes his/her remark while reconfirming what was said earlier)
