2023-07-21

Let's learn about "그를 짝사랑하고 있어요"

그를 짝사랑하고 있어요 : I have a big/huge crush on him; I’m his secret admirer

* 좋아한다고 말도 못하고 혼자서 끙끙 앓고 있는 상태 : have a crush
* 짝사랑을 하는 사람 : secret admirer

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A. 내가 고등학교 때 너 많이 좋아했어 : I had the biggest crush on you in high school

B. 정말? 근데 왜 말 안 했어? : Really? Why didn’t you tell me?

A. 거절할까봐 겁나서 : I was afraid that you’d blow me off

[other expressions]
- 그를 짝사랑하고 있다. (to younger people or friends)
- 그를 짝사랑하고 있네. (to younger people or friends)
- 그를 짝사랑하고 있어. (to younger people or friends)
- 그를 짝사랑하고 있네요. (honourific by '-요')
- 그를 짝사랑하고 있어요. (honourific by '-요')
- 그를 짝사랑하고 있습니다.. (formal; more honourific by '스')

[explanations]
* 나 : I (non-honourific word to younger people or friends)
* 저 : I (honourific word to the elderly)
* -는 : a particle makes 나 / 저 subjective after a word ends in a vowel; when this omitted, the sentence is more natural

* 난 : a short form of 나는
* 전 : a short form of 저는

* 그 : (1) that (2) he (3) [with -를] him
* 사람 : human being (non-honourific word)
* 분 : human being (honourific word)
* -를 : a particle makes 그 objective after a word ends in a vowel
* -을 : a particle makes 그 사람 / 그 분 objective after a word ends in a consonant

* 짝 : (1) [쌍을 이룬 것 중의 하나] one of a pair[couple]; a counterpart (2) a parallel (3) [사람의(of human being)] one's pal [partner / mate / fellow]; [=배우자] one's spouse (4) [as a prefix] one-side

* 짝사랑 : [Peonunciation: 짝싸랑] unrequited [unanswered / unreturned / one-sided] love; crush <-- 짝(one-side) + 사랑(love)
- 나의 사랑은 짝사랑이었다 : My love was not returned

* 짝사랑하다 = 짝사랑을 하다 : love from a distance; have a crush
- 그녀는 친구의 보이프렌드를 짝사랑하고 있다 : She feels a secret love for her friend's boyfriend

* 하고 : 하(the stem of 하고) + -고(a connection suffix between two verbs]

* 있다 : be; exist; have

* -여 있다 / -어 있다 / -고 있다 : be ...ing

* 있습니다 : 있(the stem of 있다) + 스(a suffix makes a verb more honourific) + -ㅂ니다(an honourific descriptive verb ending suffix)

* a verb + -다 / -네 / -아 / -어 : a non-honourific descriptive verb ending suffix
* a verb + -네 / -아 / -어 + -요 : an honourific verb ending suffix
* a verb +  -습니다 / -ㅂ니다 : an honourific descriptive verb ending suffix by '스' / '-ㅂ'

* 좋아하다 : like
* 좋아한다고 : 좋아하(the stem of 좋아하다) + -다고(An expression used to pass along what the speaker heard from another person, or to present the subject's thoughts, opinions, etc)

* 말 : word
* -도 : even; this used to emphasizes 말 instead of -을(a particle makes 말 objective after a word ends in a consonant)

* 하다 : do
* 못하다 : be unable to do <-- 못(a word makes a verb negative) + 하다

* 못하고 : 못하(the stem of 못하다) + -고(and)

* 혼자 : [=한 사람] one person; [=홀몸] a single person; [=혼자서•단독으로] alone; by oneself; [=독력으로] for oneself
- 그녀는 혼자서 다섯 아이를 키웠다 She brought up her five children alone
- 이것은 혼자만 알고 계십시오 Please keep this to yourself
* 혼자서 : alone

* 끙끙 : [아파서] with groans[moans]; [불평으로] grumbling; [힘이 들어] laboriously
* 앓다 : [Pronunciation: 알타] (1) [병을] suffer from; be ill ; be sick; be afflicted[troubled] (2) <비유(metaphor)> be worried ; be troubled[distressed / afflicted]
- 끙끙 앓다 : [아파서] groan[moan] with[in] pain. <비유(metaphor)> worry (oneself) / fret / brood[grieve] / repine / [돌이킬 수 없는 일] indulge in vain regrets
- 그렇게 끙끙 앓지 마라 : Don't worry! / No dark brooding! / Cheer up! / Take it easy!
- 무슨 일로 끙끙 앓느냐 : What's your worry[trouble]? / What are you worried about? / What has made you so unhappy?
- 그 일로 나는 끙끙 앓고 있었다 : I was worrying myself sick about it
- 끙끙 앓아 보아야 별 도리가 없다 : It is no use worrying[fretting] about[over] it

* 앓고 : [Pronunciation: 알코] 앓(the stem of 앓다) + -고(a connection suffix between two verbs)

* 있다 : be; exist; have
* -고 있다 : be ...ing
* 있는 : 있(the stem of 있다) + -는(a suffix makes a verb present tense and attributive)

* 상태 : [狀態] a state; a condition; [=상황] conditions; [=국면] a situation; [=광경] a sight; [=양상] an aspect

* 하는 : 하(the stem of 하다) + -는(a suffix makes a verb present tense and attributive)

* 사람 : human being (non-honourific word)
* 분 : human being (honourific word)

* 내 : I (non-honourific word)
* 제 : I (honourific word)
* -가 : a particle makes 내 / 제 the topic of the sentence after a word ends in a vowel

* 고등학교 : [高等學校] a (senior) high school; an upper secondary school <-- 고(high) + 등(class; level; grade) + 학교(school)

* 때 : when; the time

* 너 : you (non-honourific word)
* 오빠 : oppa; an man is older than a girl (honourific word)
* -를 : a particle makes 너 / 오빠 objective after after a word ends in a vowel; this omitted

* 많이 : so much

* 좋아하다 : like
* 좋아했다 : past tense of 좋아하다 by '-었-'

* 좋아했어 : 좋아했(the stem of 좋아했다) + -어(a non-honourific desxriptive verb ending suffix)

* 정말 / 정말로 : really

* 근데 : a short form of 그런데(by the bye)

* 왜 : why

* 말 : a word
* -을 : a particle makes 말 objective after a word end in a consonant; this omitted

* 하다 : do
* 안 : a word makes a verb negative
* 안 하다 : don't do

* 했다 : past tense of 하다 by '-었-'
* 했어? : 했(the stem of 했다) + -어?(a non-honourific interrogative verb ending suffix)

* 거절 : refusal
* 거절하다 = 거절을 하다 : refuse

* 거절할까보다 : 거절하(the stem of 거절하다) + -ㄹ(a suffix makes a verb future tense) + -까(whether ... or ...) + 보다(see; look; watch; think in the sentence)
* -까보다 : (1) [의도] An expression used to indicate that the speaker has an intention to do the act mentioned in the preceding statement (2) [의문•걱정] An expression used to indicate that the speaker is worried or afraid that the situation mentioned in the preceding statement may happen

* -까봐 : -까보(the stem of -까보다; 보 + -아 contracted into 봐) + -아(a connection suffix between two verbs)

* 겁 : [怯] [=공포] fear; fright; (a) terror; (a) dread; [=소심] timidity; cowardice
- 겁없는 아이 : a fearless child
- 겁많다 : be timid; be cowardly; be a coward; be chicken-livered
- 겁많은 : timid; cowardly; chicken-livered
- 겁없다 : be fearless; be bold; be daring
- 겁많은 : fearless; bold; daring

* 겁 [劫]  [불교(Buddhism)] a kalpa; an (a)eon; an eternity; long ages

* 겁나다 : be frightened[scared]; be over come with fright; be seized with fear[panic]; get in[to] a funk <-- 겁 + 나다(come out; happen; occur)
* 겁나서 : 겁나(the stem of 겁나다) + -아서/-어서/-서(because of)
* 겁난다 : present tense of 겁나다 by '-ㄴ'
* 겁났다 : past tense of 겁나다 by '-았-'
- 겁나서 소리지르다 : cry out for fear
- 말할 수 없이 겁났다 : I was scared to death
- 선생님에게 들킬까봐 겁났다 : I was afraid lest I should be found by the teacher
- 그녀는 꾸중들을까 겁나서 잠자코 있었다 : She did not say a word for fear of being scolded
- 죽기가 겁난다 : I am afraid of dying
- 개가 짖어대어 겁났다 : I was frightened[scared] when a dog barked at me
- 낯선 곳에 혼자 남게 되자 겁났다 : I was seized with fear[I got scared], when I found myself left alone in a strange place

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