2023-06-28

Let's learn about "먼저 접근한 적 있어요?"

먼저 접근한(이) 적 있어요? = 먼저 다가간 적(이) 있어요? : Have you ever made the first move (on a guy)?: Have you asked a guy out?; You ever ask a guy out?

ex #1)

A. 걔가 남자 사귈 땐 그렇게 용감한 줄 몰랐어 : I can’t believe how bold she is with men.

B. 왜? 넌 남자한테 먼저 접근한 적 없어? : Why? Haven’t you ever made the first move?

A. 나? 절대 없지! : Me? Never!

ex #2)

A. 누가 먼저 접근했어? : Who made the first move?

B. 내가 했지 : Me first

ex #3)

A. 누가 누구에게 데이트 신청했어요? : Who asked out whom?

B. 에이미가 톰한테 (데이트 신청) 했지 : Amy asked Tom out

[other expressions]
- 먼저 접근한 적 있니? (to younger people or friends)
- 먼저 접근한 적 있나? (to younger people or friends)
- 먼저 접근한 적 있어? (to younger people or friends)
- 먼저 접근한 적 있는지? (to younger people or friends)
- 먼저 접근한 적 있나요? (honourific by '-요')
- 먼저 접근한 적 있어요? (honourific by '-요')
- 먼저 접근한 적 있는지요? (honourific by '-요')
- 먼저 접근한 적 있으세요? (more honourific by ‘시’)
- 먼저 접근한 적 있으셔요? (more honourific by ‘시’)
- 먼저 접근한 적 있습니까? (formal; more honourific by ‘스’)

- 먼저 다가간 적 있니? (to younger people or friends)
- 먼저 다가간 적 있나? (to younger people or friends)
- 먼저 다가간 적 있어? (to younger people or friends)
- 먼저 다가간 적 있는지? (to younger people or friends)
- 먼저 다가간 적 있나요? (honourific by '-요')
- 먼저 다가간 적 있어요? (honourific by '-요')
- 먼저 다가간 적 있는지요? (honourific by '-요')
- 먼저 다가간 적 있으세요? (more honourific by ‘시’)
- 먼저 다가간 적 있으셔요? (more honourific by ‘시’)
- 먼저 다가간 적 있습니까? (formal; more honourific by ‘스’)

[explanations]
* 너 / 니 / 네 : you (non-honourific word)
* 언니 : a woman is a little older than you
* -가 : a particle makes 너 / 언니 the topic of the sentence after a word ends in a vowel

* 너가 / 니가 / 네가 / 언니가 : this omitted

* 먼저 : (1) [=앞서서] first; ahead (2) [=우선] first of all; above all; before anything else

* 접근 : [接近] approach; access; approximation
* 접근하다 : [=다가가다]  approach; make an approach ; come close ; draw[come / get] near (2) [=교제하다] (try to) associate with
* 접근한 : past tense of 접근하다 by '-ㄴ'

* 다가가 / 다가가다 : go[come / get] near; approach; step[come] up to; steal up <-- 다가가(approach, appeal to -, turn to -, come near to) + 가다(go)
- 다가가지 않다 : keep[stay] away[aloof] from (a person) / do not go near
- 배후로 몰래 다가가다 : steal up behind a person
- 우리는 산꼭대기에 바짝 다가갔다 : We approached[got close to] the top of the mountain
- 그녀는 그 자동차로 다가갔다 : She walked[stepped] up to the car
* 다가간 : past tense of 다가가다 by '-ㄴ'

* 적 : (1) [=때] the time (when); the occasion (2) [=경험] an experience
- 어릴 적[때]에 : in one's childhood[early days]
- 젊었을 적[때]에 : while one was young
- 그가 왔을 적[때]에는 내가 없었다 : When he came to see me I was away
- 서울에 가 본 적[경험]이 있습니까 : Have you ever been to Seoul?
- 여자가 그런 곳에 간 적[경험]이 있었을까 : Has a woman ever visited such a place? / Is there any precedent for a woman's visiting such a place?
- 그는 경주에서 이긴 적[경험]이 없다 : He has never once won a race

* (-이/-가) 있다 : (1) be; exist; there is[are] (2) have in the sentence

* 있으세요? : 있(the stem of 있다) + -으시(a suffix makes a verb more honourific) + -어(a interrogative verb ending suffix) + -요(an honourific verb ending suffix)
* 있으셔요? : 있(the stem of 있다) + -으시(a suffix makes a verb more honourific) + -여(a interrogative verb ending suffix) + -요(an honourific verb ending suffix)
* 있습니까 : 있(the stem of 있다) + -스(a suffix makes a verb more honourific) + -ㅂ시오(an  honourific interrogative verb ending suffix)
* 있으십니까? : 있(the stem of 있다) + -으시(a suffix makes a verb more honourific) + -ㅂ니까(an honourific interrogative verb ending suffix by ‘-ㅂ’)

* a verb + -니? / -나? / -냐? / -는가? / -ㄴ가? / -는지? / -ㄴ지? / -어? / -아? : a non-honourific interrogative verb ending suffix
* a verb +  -나? / -는가? / -ㄴ가? / -는지? / -ㄴ지? / -어? / -아? + -요 : an honourific verb ending suffix
* a verb + -(으)세요? / -(으)셔요? / -(으)십니까? / -습니까? / -십니까? / -ㅂ니까? : an honourific interrgative verb ending suffix by ‘-시-‘ / ‘-요’

* 걔 : a short form of 그 아이(that child); familiar form for he and she
* -가 : a particle makes 걔 the topic of the sentence after a word ends in a vowel

* 그 : that
* 남자 : [男子] [=사내] a man ; man; a male (sex); a gentleman
- 남자의 : male
* -를 : a particle makes 남자 objective after a word ends in a vowel; this omitted

* 사귀다 : [=친하게 되다] make friends ; become[get] acquainted ; strike up a friendship[an acquaintance] ; [=교제하다] keep company with; associate with; hold intercourse with
* 사귈 : future tense of 사귀다 by '-ㄹ'

* 땐 : a short form of 때는
* 때 : when; time
* -는 : a time suffix emphasizes 때

* 그렇게 : [=그러한 정도까지] so; so much; like that

* 용감 : [勇敢] bravery; valor; heroism; gallantry
* 용감한 : brave; courageous; gallant; valiant
* 용감하다 : be brave; be courageous; be gallant; be valiant

* 줄 : : (1) [=방법] how to ; the way (2) [=셈속] (the fact) that
- 요리할 줄 알다 : know how to cook
- 그는 아무 것도 할 줄 모른다 : He is good for nothing
- 그런 일이 있을 줄은 꿈에도 몰랐다 : I never dreamed[Little did I dream] of such a thing. / That was the last thing I expected to happen
- 그는 내일 올 것이니 그런 줄 아시오 : He will come tomorrow, so please be prepared. / Please hear in mind that he is coming tomorrow
- 네가 이것을 쓴 줄을 그가 어찌 알겠는가 : How should he know that you wrote this?

* 알다 : know
* 모르다 : don't know

* -ㄹ 줄 알다 : know how to do
* -ㄹ 줄 모르다 : don't know how to do

* 몰랐다 : past tense of 모르다 by '-았-'
* 몰랐어 : 몰랐(the stem of 몰랐다) + -어(a non-honourific descriptive verb ending suffix)

* 왜 : why

* 넌 : a short form of 너는
* 너 / 니 : you (non-honourific word)
* -는 : a particle makes 니 / 너 subjective after a word ends in a vowel

* 남자 : a man
* -한테 = -에게 : to
* 접근한 : 접근하(the stem of 접근하다) + -ㄴ(a suffix makes a verb past tense and attributive)

* 적 : (1) [=때] the time (when); the occasion (2) [=경험] an experience
- 어릴 적[때]에 : in one's childhood[early days]
- 젊었을 적[때]에 : while one was young
- 그가 왔을 적[때]에는 내가 없었다 : When he came to see me I was away
- 서울에 가 본 적[경험]이 있습니까 : Have you ever been to Seoul?
- 여자가 그런 곳에 간 적[경험]이 있었을까 : Has a woman ever visited such a place? / Is there any precedent for a woman's visiting such a place?
- 그는 경주에서 이긴 적[경험]이 없다 : He has never once won a race

* 있다 : be; exist
* 없다 : [Pronunciation: 업따] be not; not exist; there is[are] not

* -ㄴ 적 있다 : have an experience
* -ㄴ 적 없다 : don't have an experience

* 있어? : 없(the stem of 없다) + -어(an interrogative verb ending suffix)

* 나! : Me! (non-honourific word)
* 저! : Me! (honourific word)

* 절대 : [絶對] absoluteness
- 절대의 : absolute / positive / unconditional / categorical

* 없지 : 없(the stem of 없다) + -지(A sentence-final ending used when the speaker confirms and says something that the listener thought he/she already knew; A sentence-final ending used when the speaker talks about himself/herself or his/her thoughts in a friendly manner)

* 누가 : who

* 먼저 : (1) [=앞서서] first; ahead (2) [=우선] first of all; above all; before anything else

* 접근했다 : past tense of 접근했다 by '-었-'

* 접근했어? : 접근했(the stem of 접근했다) + -어?(a non-honourific interrogative verb ending suffix)

* 내 : I (non-honourific word)
* 제 : I (honourific word)
* -가 : a particle makes 내 / 제 the topic of the sentence after a word ends in a vowel

* 하다 : (1) do (2) approach in the sentence
* 했다 : past tense of 하다
* 했지 : 했(the stem of 했다) + -지(A sentence-final ending used when the speaker confirms and says something that the listener thought he/she already knew; A sentence-final ending used when the speaker talks about himself/herself or his/her thoughts in a friendly manner) 

* 누가 : who; this used as a subject
* 누구 : who
* -에게 = -한테 : to
* 누구한테 = 누구에게 : to whom

* 데이트 : date; going out with
* 데이트하다 : go out with
* -를 : a particle makes 데이트 objective after a word ends in a vowel; this omitted

* 신청 : [申請]  [=제의·제안] a proposal; an offer ; an overture ; [=도전] a challenge ; [=요청·의뢰] a request
* 신청하다 : propose; offer ; make an overture ; lodge[file] ; enter (oneself) for ; challenge ; request ; ask for
* 신청했다 : past tense of 신청하다 by '-았-'

* 신청했어요? : 신청했(the stem of 신청했다) + -어?(a non-honourific interrogative verb ending suffix) + -요(an honourific ending suffix)

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